So my fiancé’s mom lives in Germany. She is not coming to the wedding because it would require her to quarantine for a week before and after traveling to America. (It might be 2, I can’t remember exactly.) She also has asthma.
We had asked her at least four months ago if she wanted us to postpone and she said no. Then when I posted something about how many days left until the wedding she told my fiancé she was hurt that we wouldn’t postpone. So again, my FH and I discussed postponing. We probably in total talking about it 3-4 times. Every time I told him it was up to him and I just wanted him to be happy on our wedding day. 19 days before the wedding my FH said he doesn’t want to have the wedding without his mom. As much as I would love to say I was graceful about it. I can’t. I broke down sobbing. This entire wedding planning experience has been utter hell. My mom, my brother and my sister aren’t coming (by choice, nothing COVID related). I have struggled left and right and planned the whole thing by myself. I was so excited for it to all finally happen and to be done planning. & I was so upset that on such short notice he was changing his mind. The next morning my FH said he changed his mind again and doesn’t need his mom there. I am convinced this is only because I cried all night long (couldn’t help it, sorry 🤷🏼♀️) and he feels bad. Now I don’t know what to do. Do we have the wedding or not? I don’t want him to have regrets. I want him to be happy on the wedding day. & Obviously I never wanted to cancel. So what do I do!?