My Fh's ex wants to come to the wedding

Sounds like you need to hire security. Ask your venue how they handle crashers. If necessary, give the staff a photo of her and warn them not to let her in under any circumstances.

Yes…. I was granted with a restriction order due stalking and harassment. I will also have security guards at the door.

I have a similar issue where my FH’s ex is still in our friend circle (although we don’t hang out with her directly) and wants to attend. I had our friends nicely tell her it’s not going to happen. I don’t think she’d go as far to crash the event but I understand your nerves. I’d definitely have someone at the door to prevent her from getting in and show staff her picture

I’m just curious, what would happen if you did invite her? Would she make a scene? Would she try to stop the wedding? Are you and her on bad terms?

YES! My 2 bonus sons are groomsmen (16 & 14) and I have been in their lives since the age of 2 and birth… I have an excellent relationship with their mother (wasn’t always like that) and at first I was going to invite her to the wedding until recently I felt that she has been overstepping boundaries a bit. Like it’s been 15 years and she is remarried but there’s just a slight change in her vibe that I am not liking. I decided not to since I firmly believe that although we have a great respect and love for the kids, there is no reason to have her there since it isn’t about the kids. I hope you have someone there that can and will run interference if the ex shows up, because that’s the last thing you want to deal with on your day.