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Reeves
Super September 2017

My dress is so uncomfortable

Reeves, on July 12, 2017 at 9:19 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 26

I feel horrible about my dress. When I went dress shopping for the first time I felt almost pressured to pick one quickly and even felt a little awkward. I went with FMIL, FSIL x2 (one was invited, one was not invited originally) and my sister. Not that I don't love his family but my sister is the only person I felt myself around that day. Anyways, I tried on like 5 dresses and ended up picking the second dress I tried on. I liked it but wasn't in love with it ( I love lace and my dress doesn't have any). I went to my alterations last week and I was so uncomfortable in my dress and it felt so weird. The lady doing my alterations said that I thought it looked weird because I felt uncomfortable but that no one else would be able to tell. Ugh... just feeling crappy about it and needed to vent a little. No actual question here lol.


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Latest activity by FutureMrs.Lucas, on July 13, 2017 at 2:07 AM
  • Ashley
    Super February 2018
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    Actually very similar to mine so I may be a little biased.

    If you want lace on your dress you have two options, see if you can alter it to have it put on this dress or buy a new dress.

    At the end of the day you should love your dress.

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  • Reeves
    Super September 2017
    Reeves ·
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    From reading so many posts on here about other people's alteration experiences it seems like a lot of people have had such good results and a seamstress who has really made them feel good and love their dress... maybe I had higher expectations than I should have had.

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  • Reeves
    Super September 2017
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    And I'm pissed at myself for picking so quickly to begin with!

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  • DoggoMom
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    If you want lace still you could also add a veil with lace trim

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  • Ashley
    Super February 2018
    Ashley ·
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    It happens, you were excited initially and thats to be expected. It then probably turned into feeling guilty and pressure to find the dress at that first appointment. It happens, but the matter at hand now is you don't love it.

    You still have time to find a dress now, you may have to buy off rack but you have to do it now. There is no use crying over spilled milk.

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  • Melissa
    Master March 2018
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    What if you did a lace overlay on the skirt? It's too late to get a new dress unless you get off the rack. I'm sorry you felt pressured into this one, I did the same but luckily I had a lot of time and transferred my deposit to a dress I truly love. I hope you'll talk to your seamstress and find a solution so you can feel beautiful in it! I do honestly think you look amazing, but I know it doesn't matter when you don't feel that way in it.

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  • Heather
    VIP September 2017
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    I think it looks lovely on you

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  • annakay511
    Master July 2015
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    Sell it and buy another one!

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  • Reeves
    Super September 2017
    Reeves ·
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    My dad might kill me if i mention getting a new one since he bought this one for me lol. But I love the idea of a lace overlay! I'm going to ask about that at my next alterations appointment! Also, I'm small chested but I still feel like I'm falling out of the sides up top when I have it on. You can't tell in the picture though. Or maybe it's just because I'm not used to being "out there" like that lol idk. Either way the lady doing my alterations really just pushed away my concerns and didn't give me a good solution, she only said no one would notice what my concerns were.

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  • LuckyAK
    VIP March 2018
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    I think it's a very pretty dress, and fits you beautifully! Maybe try to look at it without thinking of what you'd change if you went back in time. It's a simple gown so you can pretty much do whatever you want with accessories. A lace veil would look beautiful. You have room to play with some really awesome jewelry here too!!!

    You could also add lace to the bodice or lace sleeves. Some places sell love overlays you can put on over your dress.

    I think it's very pretty on you for what it's worth Smiley smile

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  • LuckyAK
    VIP March 2018
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    On mobile multiple posts but if you want a lace overlay on the bodice here's two examples-


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  • LuckyAK
    VIP March 2018
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    Both are separate from the gowns and I feel like they look like part of it !


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  • Reeves
    Super September 2017
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    Oh I love that! Do the bridal shops have those or where do you find them at? I got my dress at David's bridal, surely they have a little bit of everything

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  • NinjaBride
    Super June 2018
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    Omg I would have never thought of the lace top over it but I love it! You should do that!!

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  • Natalie
    Super September 2017
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    I think either a lace overlay on the top or a lace veil would look nice. I hate you felt pressured! You look beautiful if that helps any!

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  • FinallyMrsFlax
    Super August 2017
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    I think your dress is lovely. Hopefully you can get the lace overlay and feel better and more comfortable in it. Smiley smile

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  • Reeves
    Super September 2017
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    Here's what the top looks like up close. It's pretty but it doesn't compare to what I could have picked :/


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  • TheHamWhites
    Super March 2018
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    Is it too late to exchange?

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  • PairofKings
    Devoted December 2017
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    I agree that the dress looks absolutely lovely on you! And, I think the lace overlay would probably give you the feeling you're hoping for. Smiley smile

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  • Sheri
    Super May 2020
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    You really need to LOVE your dress your only getting married ONCE right???? I would sell that one and get you one You love or you will always ask your self what if???

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