My brother has been with his girlfriend for over 10 years. They have 1 child and 1 on the way. The girlfriend and I were friends but she started doing stuff that made me uncomfortable so I distanced myself to family only interactions. I am friends and have known my brothers ex for over 13 years. My brothers ex is married with a child. She is going to be in my wedding, along with her daughter.
They dated over a decade ago, and my brother and my family is okay with the relationship I have with the ex. The current GF and baby mama has been weird ever since she realized we were friends. However, the current GF did some things that really hurt the entire family, and put a major strain on the relationship with the entire family.
I don't want any drama, but I am not willing to jeopardize my friendship with the ex. She has been incredibly kind and supportive. She is one of my best friends. I feel as though a decade and two children later this shouldn't be an issue. The current GF is quite toxic and problematic, starting arguments on holidays and is just overall negative. She won't be in my wedding. We were so close when they first got together, but I realized her toxic traits about 2 years in.
The current GF knows about the ex being in my wedding. She didn't say anything. However, I worry she could say something at the wedding. I don't even want her at the wedding but her son is in my wedding as well.
