Hi! This is my first post - my fiancé and I recently moved out of state (FL to TX) and I'm personalizing gifts to ship to my future bridesmaids and MOH since I can't ask them all in person. One of my good friends recently became pregnant - her baby will be about 6 months old by the time I get married, but as a new mom she might say no to being a bridesmaid.
So my question is should I call her and ask for her to be a bridesmaid before I personalize and ship a proposal box to her? I don't want her to feel pressured with a gift - I'm okay with her saying no. I'm torn between wanting to surprise her with a gift and being respectful of her baby girl.
