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My bridesmaid got engaged!

Aylenrose, on June 18, 2017 at 1:51 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 11

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I was so over the moon when she told me she got engaged yesterday night. She's thinking November 2018 and had already come to me for advice on where to start. I'm wondering do you think it would be sweet to get a picture of us with our sashes on at my bachelorette party( bride to be and bridesmaid) and at the end of the night me putting the bride to be sash on her as a little surprise? If she chooses me as a bridesmaid( if she doesn't that's fine to) I could put on her bridesmaid sash as well? ETA for clarity I would only put the bridesmaid one on if she had already picked her bridal party and I was included. If she hasn't chosen or I wasnt picked I definitely would not do it. I wouldnt want to pressure her into thinking she has to pick me or anything I would be honored to even be a guest.

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Latest activity by Aylenrose, on June 19, 2017 at 2:03 AM

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Tom · on June 18, 2017 at 2:24 AM
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I think that would be very sweet of You! She'll love it!
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Becoming a Spraggins · on June 18, 2017 at 3:17 AM
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I think she would be so touched!
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S&J · on June 18, 2017 at 3:23 AM
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Huh?
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Future Mrs. Mash · on June 18, 2017 at 3:59 AM
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I think that would be awkward. Especially if you won't know if she's chosen you for her bridal party because it truthfully will be too soon for her to have already asked. I think her being proposed to, is enough to explain that she is a "bride to be." You are having your party for YOU, not for someone else. I personally would skip this.
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Anna · on June 18, 2017 at 7:37 AM
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Sweet but putting pressure on her. Enjoy the night and if she does choose you as a bridesmaid then you'll have plenty of time to celebrate her engagement.
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Constance · on June 18, 2017 at 8:17 AM
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You could put the bride sash on her. But don't wear the bridesmaid sash unless she asks you to be in the wedding before hand. That would pressure her too much.
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MrsRushinin2018 · on June 18, 2017 at 8:32 AM
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Awesome idea
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Rebekah · on June 18, 2017 at 8:37 AM
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Its a super sweet idea. Love it.
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Tabatha · on June 18, 2017 at 11:33 AM
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That would be cute
But it takes away from your day! Up to you
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A.Magill.Since.May · on June 18, 2017 at 11:36 AM
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Why would you not just wait and get a picture at her bachelorette of her in the bride sash and you (maybe?) In the bridesmaid sash then collage them together? It would be more meaning full than staging the photo in the middle of your party. ETA: you could just give her the bride sash at the very end of the night and say "because next is your turn!!!" and don't put on a BM sash without her prompting.
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Aylenrose · on June 19, 2017 at 2:03 AM
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I was only saying if she asked me before I would do it if she hasnt chosen her bp yet or anything I definitely would not put the bridesmaid one on. I was thinking of doing it at the very end of the night (as stated in my original post ) like as we are about to leave as a it's your turn next kind of moment! @A.Magill that was my thoughts exactly!
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