My body has no shape at all

Do you already have a dress? A structured bodice with boning and an A line skirt can do wonders. I think shapewear will smooth out bulges, but it doesn't have enough structure to cinch in your waist. You'd need a corset or waist cincher or boustierre for that.


I've been dress shopping so many times, and seen so many other brides of all shapes and sizes. My mother can be a bit of a fat shamer, but we both agreed that this plus sized bride in the store looked amazing in everything she tried on because she exuded confidence and happiness. In contrast, the skinny bride in the store didn't look good in anything because she hung her head and didn't seem to like any of her dresses.
Beauty comes from how you carry yourself. Good luck!

You do have a shape, I promise. "Sexy" is subjective anyway, and your love already sees it or else they wouldnt of asked for your hand. What areas of your body do you feel the most confident about? What areas do you feel are strong? Accent those. That said, theres nothing wrong with shapewear, but read all the reviews you can so you dont end up with something that rolls down every two seconds.


Under any circumstances do not comparr yourself to others or even past versions of yourself. Comparison will kill you. Plants dont look at other plants and compare growth, and people are basically plants with much more complicated feelings. Youre making healthy steps and even though they may feel like the teeniest baby steps, its still progress.

You don’t need shape wear to look sexy. Also, those women are photoshopped.

I agree with everything the PPs have said about 1] you don't need a shape like a kardashian to be sexy and 2] a dress for different body types will do wonders!

Nutrition is the key to overall good health. If you want to change your body to feel stronger and healthier then I encourage you to keep up with a healthy workout routine. You may even benefit from tracking your calories for a short period of time to find out if you are eating a balanced diet. Your body is yours to love and care for. I am sure that your future spouse loves every bit of you and finds you very sexy.