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Savvy September 2021

Move On or Stick It Out

Paris, on June 12, 2020 at 7:06 PM Posted in Planning 0 9
Hi all
So I have been meeting with alot of decorators because this is a part that is very important to me. After meeting with one that I felt I really liked and got my vision for the price I was looking for I was ready to move forward.

We met last Wednesday and she said she would have the contract and pricing breakdown to me in a few days. By the following Tuesday I had not heard anything from her. Wednesday a week later she calls and says she was trying to get the email to me but was having hard time wasn't sure if she had my email right so she asked me to text it to her.
I texted her on the number she gave me, she texts me later and asked for it again even though I sent it lol. So I sent her both mine again and my fiance just incase it was my email issue. She never replied, I called the next day to ensure she had it she said she didn't. She gave me another number to text the email too and this time she replied she got it and I would have the contract by the end of the day. It's the next day I still haven't received it.
I guess my question is should I give her the benefit of the doubt and wait a little more for the contract? I dont want to feel like I'm hounding her and I dont want to deal with this later down the line. Or should I start back exploring other decorators again?

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Latest activity by Nefetera, on June 13, 2020 at 5:31 AM
  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I think i would give her the benefit of the doubt and wait. but i can see how annoying it can be since you want someone responsive.

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  • P
    Savvy September 2021
    Paris ·
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    Yes, I just dont want to lose out on our date and her lack of response it worries me but I will admit I can lack patience lol
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  • Mrs. S
    Super November 2019
    Mrs. S ·
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    I’d give her one more week and then move on. I’d be concerned she wouldn’t keep track of my date or payment.
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  • J
    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    Honestly it sounds like red flags right and left from how you're describing. You're exchanging information in a short window of time that she is ignoring as though you never sent it and ignoring you as a result, so you have to repeat the process with same results. I would start interviewing other decorators asap.
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  • Michelle
    Expert May 2021
    Michelle ·
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    You spoke to her on the phone, but she still requested you send her your email via text? Why didn’t she just take it from you over the phone? But People are very busy right now. We had to change our voicemail at work to indicate it could take 1-5 business days to get back to them.

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    Savvy September 2021
    Paris ·
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    I'm not sure why she didnt get it over the phone maybe she didnt have anywhere to write it down at the time. I agree with everyone I'm going to give her another week. I just dont want this to be an actual way she runs the business and not a here and now thing.
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  • MOB So Cal
    January 2019
    MOB So Cal ·
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    I see both sides of this. Yes, people are dealing with weird stuff, so there may be understandable reasons for her delays/flaky communication. But, at the same time, she's a vendor whose livelihood depends on close attention to detail and good communication. At the MOST, I'd give her one more week, but in the meanwhile I'd both be looking very closely at ALL of her reviews (especially on the lookout for any red flags related to communication and attention to detail) AND reaching out to other potential vendors and booking meetings with them. Generally, when people show you who they are, believe them. Daughter was very thorough in vetting her vendors and was super happy with them all. However, there was one, who from the beginning, wasn't good about communication. Daughter went with her anyway, and she did amazing work (HMUA), but right up until the week before the wedding, there were problems with her communication and follow-up that drove daughter crazy....

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  • Queen Cone
    Devoted September 2020
    Queen Cone ·
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    My rule is once someone shows me theyre unreliable i move on to the next. i had an issue with a vendor who kept saying she’d send me a contract, this and that, and then never followed up. if they cant follow up on minor things i wouldnt trust them with something big
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  • Nefetera
    VIP March 2015
    Nefetera ·
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    Give her the benefit of the doubt. However she needs to communicate much better. Seems her responses aren't quick enough
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