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mother/stepmother & son dances

Jill, on February 6, 2012 at 8:59 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 2

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FH & I are at a loss as to how to handle a mother & son and stepmother & son dance. We don't want 2 full separate dances, as we think this would just get kinda lengthy for everyone watching. I'm not sure about splitting a single song either. He was raised equally by both, but the mother & stepmother don't get along, so we get to throw that in the mix as well.

any advice on this greatly appreciated

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Latest activity by Jill, on February 7, 2012 at 5:58 PM

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Highly · on February 7, 2012 at 1:51 AM
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Since they don't get a long - have him do a special dance with his mother first. And secondly I suggest that you do a PARENTS DANCE: invite all of your parents to the dance floor (your parents, his mom and if she is re-married invite her hubby/fiance/bf) and his step-mother & father. ( I did it for my traditional african wedding, just so I can eliminate drama for people to be recognize since I was also partially raised by my uncle.)
Anyways - if his mom is married, her husband can dance with one of the other ladies (your mom or his mom) than your FH will dance with hiis step mother, and vise versa..
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Have a 2 songs with 2 different dances. You don't want feelings hurt especially since he seems to be close to each of them. I hope I was able to help.
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Jill · on February 7, 2012 at 5:58 PM
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Ahh that is a great idea!!! thank you so much, definatly going to run it by FH!!!!!
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