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Kelsey-Lynn
Just Said Yes November 2017

Mother of the Groom Problems. PLEASE HELP

Kelsey-Lynn, on September 7, 2016 at 12:32 AM Posted in Planning 0 6

So my FH mom hates me and it's nothing I have done, everyone else in his family loves me, but she doesn't. We just recently got engaged and my FH and his moms relationship has been VERY rocky because of the words and actions she has made towards me and us as a couple. I want to include her because that's the right thing to do but I'm leaving that completely up to my FH. If he wants to include her thats on him, problem is I don't want her blaming me for leaving her out and I need to start making a list of guests and well I'm honestly nervous to ask her, because she likes to invited EVERYONE that sh knows and me and FH are paying for the wedding and I'm afraid that if I scratch some people of the list it's gonna be a big blow out. I honestly do not know what to do. I feel bad.

Sorry for such a long post!

6 Comments

Latest activity by FutureMrsMaidenName, on September 7, 2016 at 8:25 AM
  • Kayla
    Super May 2017
    Kayla ·
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    Maybe give her a number of people she's allowed to invite and explain that anyone over that number that she wants to invite she'll have to pay for because that number is all your budget allows.

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  • Kelsey-Lynn
    Just Said Yes November 2017
    Kelsey-Lynn ·
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    That's a good idea! Thank you!

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  • Britt
    Devoted November 2016
    Britt ·
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    Agree with @Kayla. If she's not paying for the wedding, she doesn't really get to invite everyone from her Facebook friends list. I would tell her that you would like to keep the wedding for close family and friends and to keep costs down, and ask if she could cut her list.

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  • Kayla
    Super May 2017
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    You're welcome

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  • tinkerpsu
    VIP November 2016
    tinkerpsu ·
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    Give her a number. If she wants more guests tell her that that is all your budget allows. Maybe she will chip in to make sure her guests can come.

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  • FutureMrsMaidenName
    VIP August 2017
    FutureMrsMaidenName ·
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    This isn't meant to be mean, but if you truly have done nothing to make her dislike you, then you need to put on your big girl panties and let it go.

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