So my FH mom hates me and it's nothing I have done, everyone else in his family loves me, but she doesn't. We just recently got engaged and my FH and his moms relationship has been VERY rocky because of the words and actions she has made towards me and us as a couple. I want to include her because that's the right thing to do but I'm leaving that completely up to my FH. If he wants to include her thats on him, problem is I don't want her blaming me for leaving her out and I need to start making a list of guests and well I'm honestly nervous to ask her, because she likes to invited EVERYONE that sh knows and me and FH are paying for the wedding and I'm afraid that if I scratch some people of the list it's gonna be a big blow out. I honestly do not know what to do. I feel bad.
Sorry for such a long post!