First i know my mom has issues, being manipulative and a narcissists is a big one..
after telling me she was gonna disown me, because i dont associate with her EX's grandkids (she still claims them, they were married 5 years, divorced 10 years ago.) anyway she demands we meet up and does her normal whine and complain and whatever, then i think we are good again..
i give her her wedding invite, and she starts going on about how ridiculous my wedding plan is.. going as far to call me attention seeking and demanding...
Here is my plan:
July Wedding shower (there are 2 on opposite sides of the state for people convenience, i clear state they dont have to go to both or either of them, but i didnt expect people to drive 4 hours for some desserts..)
Aug: bachelorette shower: only wedding party and like 4 friends are invited or know about it.
Sept: reception. we are eloping before hand with just us granted this is at a camp ground and i did say whoever wants to is welcome to stay the weekend with us, but specifically the reception is only one date..
Ok.. so is this much?? if you were invited to a wedding shower and reception would this be too much??? or would you feel like the bride was demanding??? If you were part of the wedding party would you feel a wedding shower, bachelorette shower and reception was too much??
ive literally just finished making the invites and have given several of them out.. My whole plan was to be chill and fun and easy.. now im worried.