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Just Said Yes September 2022

Mother of the Bride Dress

Harmony, on June 2, 2022 at 11:47 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 4

Need some advice here. I am having a microwedding in Las Vegas on the first day of fall: 09-22-22. The ceremony is being held at Red Rock Canyon at sunset; very rustic, desert wedding, in front of a mountain. The bridal party is only 6 people: bride, groom, FOTB, MOTB, son of the groom, and grandmother of the bride.

My mom, MOTB, wants to wear a navy blue dress with bright fuchsia florals. She gave me 4 dress choices and I green lighted all of them except the floral one. I don't feel it is appropriate for the setting plus I will not know what my bouquet will look like until the day of the wedding. We hired an all-inclusive, elopement style wedding planner; one of the down falls is they pick out everything so even though you send them inspiration photos, you truly don't know what you're getting until you're at your wedding.

Anyway, I explained this to my mom, MOTB, and she lost it on me, saying that the florals are for her. I really don't feel like I have to budge on this one point and strongly feel her dress will clash with my bouquet and everyone else in the bridal party (everyone in the bridal party is wearing solid neutrals). I've been so flexible letting everyone choose their outfits, etc, and I don't know how to navigate this with my mom. Any advice??

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Latest activity by Sarah, on October 11, 2025 at 6:20 AM
  • Jasmine S.
    VIP May 2022
    Jasmine S. ·
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    Unfortunately you can't control what your mom (or any other adult at the wedding) wears. She won't be in photos with your bridesmaids (unless any of them is your sister), so clashing with the bouquets is probably a non-issue. Navy is a pretty neutral color as is. Ultimately though, you've expressed your opinion about the dress to her, and that's really all you can do. She's an adult and will wear whatever she chooses, even if you don't like it 🤷🏼‍♀️
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  • Michelle
    Champion December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    You can’t decide what is appropriate for other adults to wear. Let this go.
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  • M
    VIP August 2021
    Michelle ·
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    I feel for your mom because she wants to wear something in which she feels good. However, I can imagine the fuchsia amidst the red-orange mountains of Red Rock. Tell Mom you plan to get her a special corsage and do not want her image to clash. That is why MOBs generally wear more neutral attire. Smiley winking Okay, then follow-up with a flower delivery. Good luck.

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  • W
    VIP September 2020
    Willow ·
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    The bride picks the dress of the bridesmaids, not the mother of the bride or anyone else. If it ends up clashing that badly, your photographer can touch it up. It's not that pricy
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