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Just Said Yes July 2017

Mother of the bride dress vs. Bridesmaid dresses

Colleen, on July 20, 2016 at 10:03 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 8

Ok here is the story: I jest blew up at my mom because she is saying that the mother of the bride dress has to be the same length as the brides maid dresses. I do not want to put any restrictions on my girls and what they wear. Yes I know it was bad to blow up and I did apologies. But I have never heard that the dresses have to be the same length. Any impute?

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Latest activity by Kristen, on July 20, 2016 at 11:40 PM
  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
    Going to the chapel ·
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    No, they don't have to be the same length. The length of the mother's dress typically depends on the formality of the wedding.

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  • RealLindseyO
    Master October 2017
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    It really doesn't matter. If all of your girls are wearing different length dresses she won't be able to match it anyway so just let her wear what she wants.

    ETA: I'm glad you realize that it was wrong to blow up at her. This is such a small thing in the long run.

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  • Catlady11317
    VIP January 2017
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    MOB and my only bridesmaid will both be in long gowns, but I don't recall there being a requirement. Our wedding is going to be fairly formal, so it just made sense.

    Also how many chances do you get in life to wear a gown?

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  • CMC
    Master November 2016
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    BMs and mothers will be in long dresses for mine, but I really don't think that it matters too much.

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  • Katie
    Devoted November 2016
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    It doesn't matter! My moms dress color matches my bridesmaids. I told my mom that she won't be in pictures next to my girls! And my mom looks absolutely gorgeous!!!! But to each their own

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  • Melody
    Master April 2017
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    Absolutely no one will notice or care day of. Have her find a dress she loves.

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  • Meaghan
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    Meaghan ·
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    I recall reading something that it does look a bit better in photos in MOB and MOG have matching lengths (style, color is up to them), but I've only heard of the mothers coordinating with each other- not mothers coordinating with BP necessarily.

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  • Kristen
    Super September 2017
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    They don't have to be the same length-- though I'm glad you apologized to your mom.

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