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Thecane428
Expert April 2015

Mother of the bride dress the same color as bridesmaids

Thecane428, on April 16, 2015 at 12:31 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 1 17

My mom bought her gown 3 months ago in the same color as my bridesmaids. My sister is the moh and keeps telling my mom it won't look right. She's even made my mom want another dress even though she freaking loved it when she bought it. We are 9 days away and I think its pretty late for another gown. Do you guys really think it will look bad?

Color: champagne

17 Comments

Latest activity by FutureMrsCrane, on April 16, 2015 at 3:46 PM
  • Angie
    VIP August 2015
    Angie ·
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    My fmil INSISTED she wear our wedding colors! I was appalled, but gave in! Now both mothers are in blue. (same as MOHs) I guess since they are walking us down the aisle it won't be so bad.

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  • Lennox
    Super May 2015
    Lennox ·
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    I think it will look fine as long as the style is different.

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  • C
    Super March 2016
    ChelsM ·
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    I don't think you need to sweat this. Unless you have your mom standing right next to your BP (and even then, it would probably be fine), it won't look weird. I think a good number of moms coordinate with the wedding party. As long as your mom feels beautiful in it, worry about something else.

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  • Thecane428
    Expert April 2015
    Thecane428 ·
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    Thanks ladies. I think my sister is just nervous because her dress is different then the rest of the bridesmaids. She wanted something more nice and got a champagne mother of the bride dress from Davids bridal. So I'm thinking she's nervous her and mom will look the same lol but its not my moms fault she got a mother of the bride dress.

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  • Mrs. Nicole
    Master May 2016
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    I don't understand the picking and being weird over MOB/MOG dresses. I'm just letting them wear whatever the hell they want.

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  • Reese
    Master July 2015
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    I was just at a wedding on Saturday in which the MOB wore not only the same color as the bridesmaids, but the same material. So the bridesmaids and the MOB were wearing navy lace dresses. I noticed in passing but didn't think it looked bad or wrong. If it doesn't bother you, your mom should wear the dress she loves.

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  • Promike
    Master September 2015
    Promike ·
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    This close to your wedding, there are bigger fish to fry. Don't worry about it, it will look fine.

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  • AthenaKay
    Master June 2015
    AthenaKay ·
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    It will be fine.

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  • MrsM.
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    I wouldn't worry about it, but get where you are coming from. I didn't want the mothers to look like they were bridesmaids.

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  • Kris E
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    I am sure it will look fine. Especially if the styles are different.

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  • Theresa Beale
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    Theresa Beale ·
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    Both my mom and MIL wore the same blue that 4 of my 7 bridesmaids wore. I even suggested my mom wear a bridesmaid dress (she is young looking and I think MOB dresses tend to look matronly so I wanted something she would be comfortable in). I wanted everyone to wear something they would be willing to wear again and was glad my mom and MIL both liked what they wore.

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  • Brianna
    Expert May 2016
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    As long as it isn't the exact style as the BM dresses it will look fine Smiley smile

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  • Annie & Javi
    Master October 2015
    Annie & Javi ·
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    If its not the same style I don't see the problem. I think it will be fine.

    For the most part after your mother walking down the aisle, won't she be sitting anyway? I don't think it will be a biggie.

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  • Mrs. Hunnibear
    Master October 2015
    Mrs. Hunnibear ·
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    My mom's dress will be the same as our colors. I honestly don't think its bad and I doubt anyone would notice. Some people like to make a mountain out of an ant hill...

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  • Precious
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    Precious ·
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    There is nothing wrong with her matching. My mom's dress is the exact same dress, but longer and a different color.

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  • Amy
    Expert May 2015
    Amy ·
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    I think that, as long as the colour doesn't clash, then it'll all be good. If she loves the dress and feels fabulous in it, go for it.

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  • FutureMrsCrane
    Master October 2015
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    I don't think it's a big deal at all. I personally wouldn't care.

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