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Krista
Savvy May 2020

Mother In Law in Bridal Suite or no?

Krista, on July 22, 2019 at 7:08 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 18

Hi everyone,

I am wondering if I should invite my Mother In Law into the bridal suite while all of us (me and my bridesmaids) are getting ready doing make up and hair. I want my dad to be there for sure. My mom passed away last year and I was thinking of having my mom's best friend and my grandma in the bridal suite. But I am not sure about Mother In Law. We do have a good relationship but don't know if this is a thing everyone does?

Let me know your thoughts!!!

18 Comments

Latest activity by Talia, on July 23, 2019 at 11:23 AM
  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I think that's a thing people do! That sounds fine.
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  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
    Courtney ·
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    My FMIL might join us in the bridal suite for a quick pop in before the ceremony.

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  • Kelly
    VIP October 2020
    Kelly ·
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    People do it if they like their mother in law. Mine MIL will likely be chasing around fiance's family and getting his sisters dressed so I don't think she'll come.
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    It’s really up to you. If you’re close and you wouldn’t mind sharing that experience with her, I’m sure she would appreciate the offer. If not, there’s no obligation.
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  • earias
    Champion December 2017
    earias ·
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    Yes, if you have a good relationship with your FMIL then it is polite to invite her. I invited mine but she chose to get ready in her room which was fine with me since I knew it made her feel more comfortable.

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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
    Mrs. S ·
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    I invited mine. I think it’s nice, plus she will be my kids’ grandmother.
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  • Hillary
    Expert October 2021
    Hillary ·
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    My FMIL AND my FSMIL(step mom) will be getting ready with us. I would have invited them anyway, but it was really my mom that suggested it in the first place. I think it’s a nice gesture but certainly not necessary.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    If there's room in the suite, invite her if you'd like Smiley smile

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  • Becca
    Devoted October 2019
    Becca ·
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    If you are perfectly fine with the idea, invite her. She has the option to say no if she wants but she can cherish the thought or even the memories made while everyone got ready. Besides it might make your relationship with her better because you were thoughtful to include her in the bridal suite.
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  • Devin
    Super October 2019
    Devin ·
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    My mil will be joining us.
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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
    Andrea ·
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    It is really up to you if you want to do that, and if you feel comfortable with that. I know a lot of brides ask their mothers in law to join them. For me, I am really not on good terms with my FMIL so that is totally out of the question. But, you should go for it, if you'd like! Smiley heart

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  • Sara
    Expert October 2019
    Sara ·
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    I am inviting my mother in law. I am so close to her and she has been such a big help in everything. I think it is important to have these memories with her so she and I can tell stories to my kids. And she also doesn’t have any daughters so she is living out having a daughter through me since we are the first couples to get married. And the oldest son might never get married and the youngest son’s fiancé is super close with her mom and grandmother. I just feel like it will be a super close bonding thing for us.
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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    I would invite mine, but FH is getting ready at her place, so I'm guessing she'll want to be with him and the rest of her family.

    Also, I fully expect my dad and my stepmother to be there, given our timeline, so that might make it crowded.

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  • A
    Dedicated September 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    I am having my FMIL and FSIL get ready with me the bridesmaids, my mom and my aunt. I did it out of respect and to make them feel included. But I wouldnt feel obligated to invite her if you dont want her there. It is your day and you can have who ever you want with you.
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  • Arielle
    Expert August 2020
    Arielle ·
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    I will extend the invitation for her to join us. My mom isn't in the picture and my FMIL and I get along so well.

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  • Cassie
    Dedicated November 2020
    Cassie ·
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    I was actually just chatting about this with my mom yesterday. I am actually going to start the morning with just my bridal party, a lot of them are coming from out from town, so I really want to embrace some time with them, and then have the Mom's from both sides come and join us.


    that way I get special moments with everyone and everyone feels included and special.

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    VIP July 2017
    Becky ·
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    My MIL came to get ready with us - I think she was happy to be included - and it was a really good time, just hanging out with the ladies, getting ready. We got some really good pictures from it too Smiley smile

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  • Talia
    Super October 2020
    Talia ·
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    My MIL will most likely be since my SIL is in my bridal party.

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