Hi all!! Just trying to get some opinions on this before I respond to my FMIL about the dress request she just sent me. I don’t like it for the color but I wanted to see if it’s me or I’m “allowed” to put my foot down.
I just want to start by saying that both my mom and my fiancé’s mother asked me what colors I wanted them to wear. I literally said “I don’t care as long as it’s not anywhere near my dress. Maybe you can do something that looks nice with the BM & GM colors” My mother got navy (matches with the guys & its her fav color to wear).
FMIL asked me to go shopping with her, which I was ecstatic about, to find her dress. I was hoping she would go for a pinkish or purple as they would go really well with the colors. I explained all of this.
Then she sends me a pic of this dress. Wants to buy it for the wedding. My dress is attached for references.
Am I being crazy? I just don’t want someone in my family wearing the same color as me, especially when I’m already not in white.
I’m honestly thrilled that she’s like taking the time to online shop and is getting excited about this and really don’t want to burst her bubble but I honestly just don’t want her to wear that. She can be very sensitive though so it’s like............. I don’t know what to say.
Thanks in advance for any advice you can provide!
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