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Just Said Yes November 2018

Morning or Evening Wedding

Ingrid, on July 31, 2017 at 11:51 PM Posted in Planning 0 8

Okay, I am pretty sure I found the perfect venue. It has the most perfect outdoor ceremony garden space with twinkle lights in the trees and flowers. The inside reception is spacious and updated with a bridal suite to die for. However, this venue books 2 weddings a day, so I have to choose either morning or evening time slot for 11/11/18. My whole life I envisioned a ceremony near dusk, with an outdoor cocktail hour/photography during sunset. Now I am forced to either have an 11am ceremony with being off property by 330pm or having a 6pm ceremony, which in Las Vegas is pitch black dark. I get that we can get creative with our photographer earlier in the day elsewhere, but in that ONE moment when I walk down the aisle in my EXPENSIVE dress, I wanted the sun to bounce off my bridal glow. We are against the morning ceremony because my grandmother is avid about church Sunday morning (11/11/18=Sunday), she's 90 and bless her heart. The rest of my headcount is a party crowd. What do I do!?

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Latest activity by PandaInLove, on August 1, 2017 at 10:54 AM
  • muriel
    Champion June 2018
    muriel ·
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    The twinkle lights in the trees and flowers will be invisible at a morning wedding.

    You can add lighting to your venue for an evening wedding, but you can't take it away from a morning wedding.

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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
    2d Bride ·
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    Well, you're not going to have that sun bouncing off your bridal glow thing. So the real issue is what type of vibe you want. If your grandmother wants to go to church before the ceremony, that may resolve the issue. Otherwise, do you prefer a brunch or lunch kind of thing? Or do you prefer a dinner?

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  • Kimberly
    VIP March 2018
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    I think the twinkle lights sound really romantic. I would always prefer night, more time to get ready. I hate mornings

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  • J
    Just Said Yes May 2018
    Jayde ·
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    Are you in California ?

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  • I
    Just Said Yes November 2018
    Ingrid ·
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    We are in Vegas

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  • Megan
    Dedicated June 2018
    Megan ·
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    As a bride but even more as a guest, I would not be thrilled about a morning wedding. That puts you getting ready at 6 am (At the latest). Also, knowing the whole celebration will be over before 3:30 is a turnoff because I don't want to have a drink at 1PM. As a guest, I would RSVP no.

    And also it is a Sunday wedding. If you have the evening wedding, guests won't stay late since most people will have to work the next morning. Another reason to RSVP no.

    If you have always dreamed about getting married at dusk, find another venue that will allow you to do so. And find a venue that doesn't book two weddings in the same location in the same day. If the morning guests don't leave on time, the evening wedding is late. Also, evening guests will start arriving during the morning celebration. That can be very confusing for your guests who show up looking for your name on the sign and don't see it cause the clock has not struck X time yet.

    As a bride, you understand those logistics because you are planning the event. Your guests have no idea. Vegas should have lots of other venues that would meet your bridal dreams better than this venue.

    This sounds like it could be a trainwreck.

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  • MnmsMonique
    Super June 2018
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    Since it's a Sunday wedding I would probably go morning. Although some guests may not like missing church.

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  • PandaInLove
    Expert August 2017
    PandaInLove ·
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    From what you've shared it sounds that an evening wedding would be best for you. You would have more flexibility with your time on the premises knowing that you don't have to be kicked out by 3:30 and as you said you can get pictures of your dress in the daylight before the ceremony. Also, as PP said it's really about the vibe you want to have. A morning wedding can be more casual and/or involve brunch rather than dinner. You mentioned your guests are more of a party crowd and morning would not go well with that.

    I say have your wedding in the evening, get pictures of your dress at dusk, and wow everyone with your beautiful dress under twinkle-light for the ceremony.

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