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Just Said Yes October 2018

More than one maid of honor

Ashlynn, on April 30, 2017 at 4:47 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 10

I'm only having my 3 best friends (since kindergarten) as my bridal party. I can't just chose one of them to be the maid of honor. Would it be weird if I had all 3 if them to be maids of honor!? Please help!!!

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Latest activity by Mary, on April 30, 2017 at 10:12 PM
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    Just Said Yes October 2017
    Stephanie ·
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    I think that's just fine. To be honest, if you're okay with them all being maids of honor I say why not. I've seen a couple weddings where they have 3 or 4 ! Its all good.

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  • Bemyguest
    Master April 2017
    Bemyguest ·
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    It kind of stops being an "honor" when it applies to everyone. Don't have a MOH and just have them be bridesmaids.

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  • Megan
    Super October 2018
    Megan ·
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    Bemyguest makes a good point. I have seen where a bride has two maids of honor but also has more bridesmaids. If you are only having the three girls in your wedding, it might be a little odd that they all have the title MOH instead of BM.

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    VIP November 2017
    M ·
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    I'm having two MOHs I love them both and it's worked out great! I will say though, one has been more into how my planning is going and more willing to give me her opinion when I need it. she's just all around more interested and excited. She has really taken on the "roll" of MOH well. If I could go back I would have just picked one MOH, but it is what it is. It's been a lot of fun! I also have one Jr. BM.

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  • Madelayna
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    Madelayna ·
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    I can't see what would be the difference...it's just a title especially if you make them all MOH. If you want to, go ahead. But I can't see the difference between 3 bridesmaids and 3 MOHs. If it's only because you don't want to single any one out as being better just have 3 bridesmaids. I agree with @BMG as it seems like it takes the specialness of being MOH if they're all MOH...

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    Just Said Yes October 2018
    Ashlynn ·
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    Okay thanks everyone! I just want them all to be involved the same amount! Maybe I should just have them all be bridesmaids instead of maids of honor!

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  • A.Magill.Since.May
    Master May 2018
    A.Magill.Since.May ·
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    I'm in the same spot with you are with my 2 sisters and best friend being all of my bridal party and I can't choose between them. I'm having them all as bridesmaids, because even if you give them all the label, they'll basically all be bridesmaids.

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    Master November 2016
    CMC ·
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    I think 3 is overkill. I agree with the others, just have them all be bridesmaids

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    Futuremrsk ·
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    I was in this predicament too with my 2 best friends(one since we were 4 and the other since middle scho). Turns out my friend from middle school is getting married before me (so excited for her) so she will be my matron of honor and my other friend will be my maid of honor. I was originally going to have them both be maid of honor and then the rest of the bridesmaids. You do whatever makes you happy!!

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    Savvy November 2018
    Mary ·
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    I have two best girl friends. In friend #1's wedding, me and #2 were dual maids of honor, in friend #2, me and friend #1 were maids of honor. I'm getting married next and they are both my matron of honor. We all took turns signing the marriage lisence also. Going into the first marriage we all kind of had an informal agreement and it has worked out beautifully and very meaningfully. We've even given a co-speech at each wedding.

    Ultimately it's your day and you should make it the way you want. Talk to everyone openly and they even might have suggestions.

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