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Christina, on June 22, 2020 at 12:10 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 3

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32 days till I say I do ! I had to postpone my wedding celebration to 2021 and I’m having a zoom ceremony this year with just family physically there. However as I’m getting closer to my micro wedding I’m starting to feel down about the party in 2021

I’ve had people (mainly my future sister in law) say rude things as soon the quarantine happened and even after now that we are opening up. I feel drained from planning. My bridal party has kind of let me down. My venue is telling weddings no parties over 50 until a vaccine 🙃 and there will be no dancing and we would have to be creative with games.
Today I felt like calling in the party. My FH said no making decisions until after our zoom ceremony. I just wanted to know if anyone can relate. I feel like I’m so HAPPY to get married to my bestie in 32 days and I was holding on to my reception so much... but Itis starting to slip away from me. I didn’t think I would feel down but I am.

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Latest activity by Lynnie, on June 25, 2020 at 4:55 PM

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Melle · on June 22, 2020 at 12:14 AM
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I can’t imagine what you might be going thru right now but I can definitely say that’s very valid - you had been looking forward to something for so long and then for it to be taken away just makes it disappointing. I hope that you find the joy in the planning again ! The pandemic put a damper on a lot of things but sometimes that damper won’t stay for long ! It’s like the natural ups and downs of life - it might be down right now, but it can go back up again hang in there
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Sexypoodle · on June 22, 2020 at 2:58 AM
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I do agree with your FH about waiting until after the zoom wedding. I have a feeling that your spark and excitement will return after that. But in the meantime focus on that happiness you mentioned about marrying your bestie as opposed to the obstacles created by the pandemic that are out of your control.
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Lynnie · on June 25, 2020 at 4:55 PM
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I'm so sorry Christina, but I definitely understand your feelings!
I'd also try to wait until after your July wedding, and give yourself some time to see if you've firmly decided against a 2021 celebration or if it was a fleeting feeling. It's all an emotional roller-coaster right now, so try not to make any sudden decisions!
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