How involved have your moms been in planning? When I got engaged my mom seemed super excited about helping me plan, and since she didn't get to plan much of her own wedding (she had mono) I thought she would be more hands on. But now that the time to plan is actually here, I feel like she doesn't want to help. Or the only reason she does end up helping is because she feels guilty that my FMIL is helping. It's really something I wanted to share with her, as I'm the only daughter, but I really don't feel like she cares about this wedding at all at some points. Like this weekend, I invited her to go to a few tastings with us for catering and she told me she wouldn't be their unless my FH couldn't make it (depending on work) because my brother has a soccer game.