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Devoted April 2020

Mom stressing me out!

Courtney, on August 29, 2019 at 11:22 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 6
She has discovered that there are places to stay on property at our venue and she calls me last night and is like are yall staying there? I told her one of my BM's is because she is out of town, but everyone else will just meet us there that morning to get ready. She then continues to say well you know I can't drive at night and will need somewhere to stay. I was like ok well you can stay there or get a hotel room. She said I won't be able to afford to stay at the wedding venue. Ok it is $125 a night.

I don't know if she thought I would offer to pay for her a room, but I am not. My fiance and I are paying for our wedding and honeymoon all on our own. This is my second wedding and I dont feel right asking anyone for money for anything.

It isnt like my wedding is super late either. We are getting married in April at 430. The time will have already changed to getting darker later. Yes, we are having reception afterwards but if she wanted to leave earlier I would be fine with that.

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Latest activity by Melissa, on August 29, 2019 at 4:13 PM
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    Devoted April 2020
    Courtney ·
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    I will add that I dont consider my wedding to be a "destination wedding". It is 45 mins from my house and everyone is within driving distance.
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    Don't feel bad, she will figure it out! Whether she finds another nearby hotel or pays for transportation, it'll be fine. If you want to help her, you could look up cheap hotels nearby or get a quote for an uber/taxi but it isn't necessary.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Can you suggest she carpool with someone ?
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  • C
    Devoted April 2020
    Courtney ·
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    I may suggest that. My sister will be coming that morning, but she has a vehicle with three seats in it. She might could ride with her if she doesnt want to drive.
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  • Nicole
    Super October 2021
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    I wouldn't feel bad.... you shouldn't be obligated to pay for her room. If she's really concerned about night driving could she catch a ride home with a family member?

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  • Melissa
    VIP September 2019
    Melissa ·
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    I would suggest her to carpool or find a hotel nearby if she can’t stay on property and take an Uber.
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