Mom and stepmom/ daughter dance

Does it need to be a dance?

A corsage for both, a nice gift and card for both, even a mention in a toast and making them both honored gifts is plenty.

If you want to dance with both of them, the dances don't need to be spotlighted.

Your stepmom might not want your mom to be uncomfortable as well

Nice of you to consider everyone!

I wanted to a dance with them both during the mother son dance so it wouldnt be spottlighted and what i thought of doing was start the dance with my mom and then end with my steomom. and our theme is rennaissance so we arent really doing corsages

I think you should dance with your mom for a dance and then dance iwth your step mom for a dance.... your mom should have ZERO opinion on who else you dance with as it will not affect your dance with your mom!

i'd gently tell my mom that while i love her and respect her, i also love and respect my step-mom and i want to include her and recognize her, just like i'm recognizing you.

end of conversation... if your mom wants to be petty about it... that's on her!!

but since you aren't getting married until 9/29/18 i'd hold off on much further conversation... you have more than enough time to get your mom to settle down about it.

and if she doesn't? then she will just have to deal with that on her own.

I will be dancing with both my dad and stepdad. My dad is dancing with my stepsister at her wedding. Its about honoring people in your life. My dad knows he is my father and isn't replaceable, but understands that my stepdad is also a part of my life and that I want to honor both of them.

Most people dont do a mother daughter dance i believe... i would not do one if it will cause that much issues

Its not a spotlight mother daughter dance i planned on doing it during the mother son dance.