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Just Said Yes March 2018

Mom and dad giving me away

Katie, on March 6, 2017 at 5:32 PM Posted in Planning 0 26

My mom wants to give me away along with my dad. How normal is tho? I don't want to take away the moment from my dad even though he says he's ok with it. What's everyone's take on this? I'm still undecided on this

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Latest activity by Holly, on March 7, 2017 at 12:04 AM
  • LB
    Champion November 2016
    LB ·
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    This is normal in Jewish weddings. I think it's nice.

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  • grnnslvr08
    Dedicated September 2017
    grnnslvr08 ·
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    I know in some catholic churches they like to recommend to be given away by both parents so I've seen it more and more. I think it's up to you what you feel most comfortable with.

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  • annakay511
    Master July 2015
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    I had both my parents walk me down the aisle! It was very special! I am close with both of my parents. My friend also had both her parents escort her. Neither of us are Jewish, btw!

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  • Kia9
    Super August 2017
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    I plan to have both parents. I don't think it is weird at all

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    We don't personally 'give' anyone away, but we will often ask for support of both parents.

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  • Nadia
    Master June 2017
    Nadia ·
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    My parents are both walking me down the aisle. As Celia pointed out our officiant then will ask if they support this relationship and marriage( this will be asked to FH's parents at the same time). It was really important for my mom that she walk me down the aisle.

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  • StPaulGal
    Master July 2017
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    I'm not going to be "given away" because I am not property, but I will walk down the aisle with both of my parents. My FH is doing the same.

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  • CoffeeNColor
    Master August 2017
    CoffeeNColor ·
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    Since I am Jewish, it is normal for both parents to walk down the aisle with their child.

    I've never liked the notion of being 'given away.' If you have a good relationship with both parents, I say walk with both.

    Edit: hit submit too fast.

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  • Dreamer
    Master May 2013
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    Mine did!

    I first sang at a wedding about 15 years ago - big Catholic church - and both the bride's parents walked with her.

    I'm not into the sexist/archaic tradition, that you have to have a male relative walk with the bride. I wanted my groom to walk in, with both his parents, but he nixed it.

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  • Lucio@Last
    Super June 2018
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    I think it's awesome to also include your mom. They both raised you and I don't know how it could possibly be taking anything away from your dad by having his wife also walk their daughter down the aisle. Only my mom will be walking me

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  • Erin Wood
    Master July 2017
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    I don't think it's abnormal at all. I've seen it done a few times and I think it's sweet.

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  • CuteNickname
    Super July 2017
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    Nope not abnormal!! FH and I are Catholic, and we will be walking down the aisle together. We are the ministers of our own sacrament, we are equals, and neither of us is property to be given away.

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  • A. L.
    Master July 2017
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    Jewish bride here, this is what normal is.

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  • MrsSki
    Master April 2017
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    My dad is walking me down the aisle but my mom is joining us at the front. They both raised me, so they both should be there. Bonus: my mom will make sure my veil hangs nicely in the back after my dad flips my blusher!

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  • Bemyguest
    Master April 2017
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    I'm doing this. My dad was glad I decided to include my mom this way!

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  • Roni37
    Savvy November 2017
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    My second marriage so I am walking in the chapel on my own, but im having my parents at the front to meet me.

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  • Samantha
    Savvy March 2027
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    I think it is a lovely idea of that is what if you want to do! If your dad says he is fine with it, then I'm sure he won't mind! If it really concerns you have a sit down with ONLY your father and ask him to tell you the truth about what he thinks.

    I have always dreamed of my dad walking me down the isle and giving me away since I was a little girl. If I hadn't wanted that since I was little i would probably have my mom and dad walk me, too. What I plan on doing is having my mom walk in with my nephew first, then my FH's mom and step-dad, then the wedding party, the ring bearer, the flower girls, and me and my dad.

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  • AwkwardToBe
    VIP September 2017
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    My mom wants to walk me down the aisle with my dad too. I think it's a nice thought. Both parents raised you, so both parents should usher you into the next phase of your life.

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  • It's going to be "Good"
    VIP September 2017
    It's going to be "Good" ·
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    Both my mom and dad are giving me away. I'm looking forward to this very special moment :-)

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  • JPCD
    VIP May 2018
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    I think it can be whatever you want it to be. My mom is walking me down the aisle and having a mother daughter dance with me. She played both roles in my life and I want to honor her any way I can Smiley smile

    Even if it is a little unconventional.

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