Moh!

Have both them do it. I have two matron of honor.

I would hold off on making any bridal party decisions until you're about a year out. You have tons of time, and even with family, relationships can change dramatically over 2 years. There are tons of horror stories on here of bridal party drama. Another thing you can do is gave 2 maid of honor, or if aunt is married and cousin is not then it would be matron and maid of honor.

I would honestly hold off asking anyone until your about 9-12 months out. If someone asks just tell them you haven't made decisions yet and just want to enjoy be engaged for a little bit.

I'm not asking right yet I'm waiting a year out. But I'm only having 1 moh and 2 bm

First of all, you can just have both of them do it! But second, I would really wait at least another year to make this decision! It's super premature to ask people to be in your bridal party!

I would make everyone a bridesmaid.

Wait a year and see how it goes. But it seems like you already know you don't want your cousin to do it.

You can have 2 MOH...I have 2

I wouldn't choose someone that made everything about themselves or drove you crazy either (included with all PP's)

You are more than 2 years away from your wedding! There is no reason to think about this now. So much can change in over 2 years.

I have both a maid of honor and a matron of Honor or because I couldn’t choose between my older and younger sister

View Quoted Comment How much does the title matter? Are they going to wear the same dress or will your MOH wear something different? I ask because my niece is 13 and of course she's not old enough to be MOH, but she's insisting that a Jr. BM title is babyish. Her mom will be Matron of Honor. Friends are surprised I'm going along with this, but I'm over hear like who gives a crap about a title? My sister knows she's the boss and I dont have to argue with my niece. We're skipping programs bc they're a waste of $ and just end up in the trash so no one will see the titles printed. They will wear different dress styles in the same color and fabric from the same vendor, so no issue there. I think as long as your 3 girls know they're a part of your day it shouldnt matter. Who will stand directly next to you? I think you have your answer already (your aunt).

Hello lovely! Congratulations on the upcoming wedding. It may sound somewhat selfish but remember that this day is about you and your love. It’s not about making everyone happy. Just being invited to celebrate your special day should be joyous enough. But If you feel absolutely backed into a corner. Have your aunt in the bridal party. At least it’ll mean that you can tell your cousins that it’s out of respect and that love. And you can pull your cousin aside and give her a meaningful gift to honor her for being there for you so you can keep the peace. Hope it helps

View Quoted Comment Yes ma'am they will be in different dresses.