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asilva18
Savvy May 2018

MOH vs Matron of Honor vs Bridesmaid

asilva18, on August 8, 2016 at 10:23 PM Posted in Planning 0 8

Maid of Honor vs Matron of Honor vs Bridesmaid...aaaand go. I'm totally lost on the distinction of their roles and Internet searches are saying different things.

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Latest activity by lilinett, on September 6, 2018 at 10:09 PM
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    Just Said Yes May 2017
    Aubrey ·
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    Did you mean Matron of Honor vs Maid of Honor??

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  • asilva18
    Savvy May 2018
    asilva18 ·
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    Yes, ha. Sorry

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  • BeachDreams
    Master May 2017
    BeachDreams ·
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    A Maid of Honor is single (not married) and a Matron of Honor is married. Generally, you give the title of Maid of Honor/Matron of Honor to the person you are closest with in your bridal party. The only "roles" they have (either Maid/Matron of Honor or Bridesmaid) are to buy a dress and stand by your side on your special day. Happy planning!

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  • BreKMK
    Expert January 2017
    BreKMK ·
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    They're all similar in that they're the women who stand beside you to support you at your wedding. The MOH is slightly more "special," I guess you could say: one you want to honor. That can be your sister or bff, or if you have multiple sisters or bffs you could eliminate it entirely. The only difference between the two kinds of MOH is marital status: maid (unmarried) or matron (married). I'm sure someone else can explain it more succinctly.

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  • FutureMrs.Dyson
    Super December 2016
    FutureMrs.Dyson ·
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    Like PP said, the difference is being married or not. As far as roles, technically the only thing you should expect is for them to get the dress and show up. Every circle is different, my bridal party drives me crazy but they go out their way to help and give me input. That's what I've always know and expected bridesmaids and Moh's to do. That's also what my bridal party knows and expected to do. I don't have to ask. But to each its own.

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  • Meaghan
    VIP April 2017
    Meaghan ·
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    Sometimes it's the MOH and best man (otherwise known as "honor attendants") who sign and witness your marriage license. They can also hold rings if you prefer. And they usually both give speeches at the reception. I know WW is big on the whole "All they need to do is show up with attire"...and that's true. But your honor attendants can be as involved (or not) as you/they choose I think.

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  • Sarah
    Dedicated January 2017
    Sarah ·
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    These days, it's also common for the MOH to do a speech as well, whilst the bridesmaids do not. Obviously if she is really uncomfortable she doesn't have to, but that is a key distinction between bridesmaid and MOH where I'm from. (Our MOH's also hold the bouquet of the bride at the ceremony and sign the register for us. They also generally organise the hens do, but again, it's what they want do for you and what is common in your area)

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    Just Said Yes September 2019
    lilinett ·
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    Anyone know is the godmother n made of honor the same if not what's the difference????
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