I'm having some trouble with my MOH. I'm not really sure what to do because she isn't fulfilling any of her MOH roles. She was super excited at first when I asked her and we've been friends for a long time so I thought she was going to be happy and put effort into doing a good job as MOH like I would for her. But, she hasn't gotten her dress when the other bridesmaids have and hasn't communicated with them at all about the "bridal shower" (just bridesmaids and a few friends) I mentioned. I feel kind of selfish, but I guess I thought she was going to be more excited and put some effort in. She told me she doesn't have a ton of money for party stuff, which I totally understand but then she said she is planning a month-long international trip just before our wedding. Seems like her MOH duties are literally at the bottom of the list of things she cares about. I don't know if I should ask another bridesmaid, like my sister, to help keep things moving or just stay out of it and hope that it comes together in the end and she plans the shower/bachelorette/ and communicates with the bridesmaids. I don't think I'm asking too much for wanting those fun parties, but let me know what your guys think please, I feel stuck.