moh marrying 2/3 weeks after

Hi everyone, hope you’re all enjoying wedding/bachelorette planning.
Seeking some advice, I have been engaged for 9 months and booked my wedding 4 months ago, my best friend/MOH of 20 years got engaged this month and has suggested getting married 2 weeks after myself. My fiancé and I were planning our honeymoon around this time. I also worry about money and timing clashes with dates for bachelorette/ bachelor parties as we are in a friend circle.
It all seems too close and I think it could be stressful ..not only for myself but also for her. Really unsure what to say or do. I’m not a controlling bride and haven’t been affected by anything else in the wedding process, I just wish they could be spread apart so we could both be fully on board both financially and mentally and not be worrying about our own weddings. Any advice welcome. Please feel free to tell me I’m exaggerating. Our venue is flexible and I know they wouldn’t mind if I changed the date -so that our weddings are farther apart (no invites have been handed out yet so this wouldn’t be an issue for me if she wants to keep the date I could move mine slightly) just very cautious of having to pay for my own destination bachelorette and her destination bachelorette then both our weddings in one month.
Thanks in advance folks!