My MOH has been my best friend for a couple years now, but ever since we both moved (military) it's been a one-sided friendship. She used to keep in touch often but now I can't get her on the phone or to answer a text unless she wants dating advice or help with which guy she wants to go out with on certain days. She recently got divorced and has been dating a different guy every day (no judgement, her life is her own). She was supposed to be flying out to visit me this month for my birthday and to help with wedding stuff but told me she isn't coming due to "work stress". I sent her a MOH box I made since I couldn't give it to her in person, and I can't even get her on the phone to see if she liked to box or not. I made her a blanket in the velvet yarn she asked for, got her a monogrammed MOH tumbler, a Japanese kimono for getting ready in, MOH slippers for getting ready, and a Vera Bradley hot iron travel case. I spent so much time, energy, and money into this and she can't even answer a text or answer my calls. Ive tried talking to her a out how I'm feeling multiple times but I'm given excuses about work stress or missing her ex. I'm ready to cut off my friendship with her, and yet I'm confused. Should I cut off contact or keep holding on to her as a friend, who may not even show up to my wedding? She promised she'll be there and yet I'll go weeks-a couple months without hearing from her...
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