moh frustration 😭

Just a little back story my MOH is my bestfriend of 8 almost 9 years.
Whenever we’re together it’s like time hasn’t passed and we click like we speak everyday but in reality we don’t. We have our own lives and I’m fully aware of that. I’m a mother myself and I have a full time job on top of that. So I get the idea of having a busy life and no energy. But I’m getting married in December (4 MONTHS AWAY!) I feel like it’s crunch time and I need to get A LOT done.
My MOH always seems so busy that she hasn’t really done anything for the wedding so far. I had a DIY day with my bridal court to get invitations done and she couldn’t make it because of work which I understood. But since then I’ve tried to ask her to meet with me to try on her bridesmaids dress because I need to order the dresses ASAP. I even simply asked to spend some time with her since it’s been over a month since we’ve since each other let alone had a real conversation. She always says she busy but in the past two weeks alone on social media I see she goes out partying and is hanging out with other friends and it makes me feel like theres no priority in her life for me or my wedding.
i confronted her about it and she said “As far as I know I only missed invitations? ..as far as wedding things go, if you need help lmk” like WHAT?! obviously there’s more to a wedding than just invitations and as my MOH and bestfriend I’d expect her to be more involved or more passionate about wanting to be involved, like instead of waiting for me to give her a “job”, take the initiative and be like “hey, I know you got invitations done, what else is there to do that I can help with?”

I just wish she WANTED to be more involved....am I crazy?!