moh drama (vent session)

So most of this wedding planning process has been nothing but drama from my wedding party. More recently my MOH has been a bit self-centered and I'm tired of it.

We were originally going to get our nails done the day before the wedding in the morning with my mom, sister, daughter, and niece. She was going to have the whole day off but her boss asked if she could work a few hours in the morning. She asked if we could go at 12 instead and I didn't think it would be a problem.

My sister and niece are flying in from Hawaii 10 days before the wedding and my sister is baking all of our cupcakes from scratch so they can't really be done too soon or they could get ruined. She was worried she wouldn't be able to get them done in time before we have to travel an hour to the venue where we will be spending the night so we were hoping to go Thursday night instead. I bring this up to my MOH and she says she wouldn't be able to go until after 6 as she is working and thinks that's a bit late to go get nails done. I said it's either that or earlier Friday morning to which she replied she already told her boss she would work and she's not telling him nevermind now so she'll just go by herself Friday after work.

I can tell she's not happy but I stick to my guns (she can be very difficult to deal with sometimes) and say if that's what we need to do then so be it. She asked what time rehearsal was and I said she needed to be to the venue for 3:45 so we can start at 4 and she says I'll try but I might as well work until 1 now since I was only leaving early so we could do stuff together. Then proceeds to post on Facebook saying "Can I Drop out now?!"

Now I'm angry because she's being a pain over something trivial and is acting like I just betrayed her because she is refusing to be cooperative. On top of it I asked everyone to be at the venue the day of the wedding for 10:00 as that is when we are allowed to start decorating and she told me she'll be there at 12 because the kids will be bored for all that time.

Thank you for reading all of this and sorry for the super long post. Lol