moh being too pushy rant

~This is more of a rant and less of an advice thing, i’m just a bit stressed!~

So, i’m having my best friend be my MOH. I love him SOO much and he’s always been there for me and we tell each other everything. I’m in the middle between a good planner and laid back but i’m being very “type-A” like when it comes to planning my wedding. My MOH, however, is SO into my wedding planning that he’s pushing his ideas of what he wants for his future wedding onto me. To the part where he even posted about it being like OUR wedding (it’s a joke, but after my last conversation with him i’m feeling a bit stressed about it) I had told him about this song that is super cute and i think could be a potential first dance song because it mentioned about loving someone no matter where in the world they are and my FH and I were long distance for awhile. He said that it wouldn’t be a good song and that the song has to be about “new beginnings and unity” but i feel like it’s just literally whatever song you and your partner both want and love. I’ve seen people do hip hop routines (which, are amazing and if i could dance i would do something like that lol) and he said “it’s your wedding do what you want!” but anything i’ve said to him he’s come back with and idea that fits a more traditional type wedding, which i’m not trying to stick to, i’m just putting in whatever i think would make me and my FH happy. I know he’s trying to be helpful and I want the advice, i just want him to stop shooting down everything i’ve said because it doesn’t seem as traditional 😅