So, my moh is one of my best friends, and is also a guy. So he is new to the whole being a bridesmaid thing. He is a great person, and I couldn't ask for a better, more supportive MOH. He is planning my bachelorette party, went dress shopping with me (and was a rock star in helping me) and has been a sounding board every time I need one. He recently asked if there was anything else he should do.
My dilemma is this. Someone else has offered to host a shower, because they figured he may not know about them. I don't want to tell him that MOHs have been known to throw showers because I don't want it to seem like I am asking him to throw me one. I am not. I also don't want him to be hurt if someone else throws it for me and then he feels he failed somehow. He is super excited, and loving being the perfect MOH, and if he thought he was supposed to throw it, he would be heartbroken. What do I do?
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