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Just Said Yes May 2025

moh and bm Seating Arrangement Proper Etiquette

Xenia, on February 5, 2025 at 8:39 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 5

Hi,

We are having many flower girls and ringbears, two junior bridesmaids and two junior groomsmen in our wedding. We also have a MOH and BM, but we are not sure how we should do the seating arrangements. My FH and I were thinking of doing a sweetheart table as it would look weird to sit at a head table filled with kids. That being said, I'm not sure where to sit the MOH and BM (a married couple), should I set them with their parents? Should I arrange a head table with the junior bridesmaids, junior groomsmen and MOH and BM plus us? Should it be me my FH and the MOH and BM? What is the proper etiquette in this situation? Help would be GREATLY appreciated.

THANK YOU!!!

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Latest activity by Veronica, on February 6, 2025 at 4:36 PM
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    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    It’s really up to you. We did a sweetheart table and then the bridal party were all sat amongst the rest of the guests at tables with people they were friends with or related to. That way everyone was sitting at a table with people they were comfortable with and liked.
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    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    It's completely up to you which I know is probably not the answer you are looking for. Below is how we had everyone seated. We did have some things that complicated seating. My father-in-law is estranged from my hubby's sister and hubby's older brother so they couldn't sit near each other. My hubby's parents are divorced and dad is remarried so we didn't want to my mother-in-law sit with father-in-law. My dad is a recovering alcoholic so we sat him with others who wouldn't be drinking. But this kind of gives you an idea of what a step-up might look like. Everyone in red writing was in the bridal party.

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    Just Said Yes May 2025
    Xenia ·
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    Thank you for your help, this makes sense! I think I am going to have them sit with people they are comfortable with.

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    Just Said Yes May 2025
    Xenia ·
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    This is very detailed, I love it! Thank you so much for your help. I greatly appreciate it! I am going to keep referring to this set up.

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    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    You're welcome! We had to provide a very detailed chart like this to our venue because they wanted to know how to set everything up for us.

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