Good Morning 🌞,
Yesterday my fiancé (groom), one of his groomsmen, FOG, MOG, and I went to pick out my fiance’s Suite. We were all gathered around the table looking at different ideas and colors. I noticed his mom sitting and not really involving herself. I asked FOG why she wasn’t joining us and he said because she’s waiting for me to ask her to come over and join. and I was like why she s an adult she can come over if she wants and involve herself. I was a little bit annoyed because she always seems to like play games and act like a victim a lot. A couple of weeks ago there was drama and apparently she felt left out of things a lot and I can’t help but keep thinking that she kind of does that to herself and creates this vision in her head this causing her to feel that way. My fiancé thinks that I need to ask her to be included in stuff continuously so she doesn’t feel left out but I mean we are all adults, right? it all just seems kind of childish like we are in high school or middle school and it is just silly in my eyes. I think that because of how she sees things and her mentality it limits her. I don’t really think I need to baby her and all that because I really don’t have time for the nonsense. is this stuff on me or is it the MOG problem that she needs to get through?