Skip to main content

Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

A
Beginner April 2018

Minted Wedding Invites - rsvp on back?

Amanda, on January 31, 2018 at 11:42 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 12
Hello all,

I am looking at Minted.com and am in LOVE with their designs; however, the price is more than what we budgeted on for invitations if we were to purchase the whole shebang (RSVP, direction cards, etc).

Our wedding will be large as we have large families and it will be formal. We're also looking at 250 invitations. My question is, I understand that common etiquette generally frowns on adding extra information to the wedding invitations but would it really be something to be ashamed of to keep within budget? I've added photos below to show of the examples.

If not we're looking around $2000 for invitations and as a frugal mom I feel that's quite a chunk of change for some paper that will eventually get thrown away by most of the invitees.

Thoughts?

Thank you!

Invite FrontMinted Wedding Invites - rsvp on back? 1

Invite BackMinted Wedding Invites - rsvp on back? 2


12 Comments

Latest activity by Amanda, on February 28, 2018 at 9:51 PM
  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
    Going to the chapel ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Remember that you don't need one invitation for every guest. You mentioned 250 invites. Does that mean you have about 500 guests?

    Your thread title mentioned having the RSVP on the back of the invitation. If you are having them mail the RSVP back to you, that won't work. The guests needs to be able to keep the invitation. If you are doing on line RSVPs, you could print on the back similar to what is pictured.

    • Reply
  • Nikki
    Devoted October 2018
    Nikki ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I personally don't see anything wrong with info on the back but some people may not look at it. I would definitely leave out your registry info. That should be either word of mouth or found on your website. And I still think it's important to include RSVP cards for older generations.
    • Reply
  • BrandiWeds18
    VIP May 2019
    BrandiWeds18 ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I think this is a good option if you do indeed need 250 invitations. Its per household not per person. Leave registry off, put on the website. I don't think its necessary to have to send physical RSVPs. Do you have a larger older crowd? Do they not know anyone to RSVP for them? I'm also sure you can call and ask them if you don't see their electronic RSVP. You only run the risk of them not seeing the back initially. Maybe a small business card size that says "For more information and to RSVP please visit the website". Either way i think it's fine you may just have to answer some questions later.

    • Reply
  • An
    Super September 2019
    An ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    If it is formal, this is fine. If it is black tie, it is not. I would just plan on having to follow up with some people that don't flip it over.

    100% you need to take off your registry info, that is not supposed to be on your invitations. I also don't think you need the timeline.

    • Reply
  • Kristin
    Super May 2018
    Kristin ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Another way to lower the cost would be to forego the foil. It is beautiful but definitely adds to the cost.
    • Reply
  • BlueHenBride
    Master March 2017
    BlueHenBride ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    A couple things:

    1.) Be prepared for a few guests to miss that there's important information on the back of the invitation. There usually isn't stuff on the back of a wedding invitation, so it's possible some people won't think to flip it over. You may need to call a few extra guests after your RSVP deadline, just in case this happens.

    2.) Speaking of RSVP deadlines, it would be helpful if you included yours in the line asking guests to RSVP on your wedding website.

    3.) It's considered very rude to mention gifts on a wedding invitation (or on any inserts). It is, however, acceptable to put registry info on your website. The link to your website is already provided with your RSVP info. If any guests want to get you a gift and want your registry info, they can then click on your registry page.

    4.) Am I understanding that your ceremony is beginning at 3pm and ending at 3:30 or are you saying guests can begin arriving at the venue at 3 pm and the ceremony will not begin until 3:30? This is unclear. If it's the latter, perhaps it would be more helpful if you stated the doors will open at 3pm.

    5.) No matter how the schedule for the ceremony is to be interpreted, it seems you have a gap of at least an hour between the end of your ceremony and beginning of the reception, but everything is happening at one venue. What are your guests doing in between?
    • Reply
  • A
    Beginner April 2018
    Amanda ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Thank you all for the input! I absolutely love the foil. I found many other designs but this matches the feel of our wedding 100%.

    It's about a 500 person wedding - and that's excluding many.

    250 invitations leaves about 20 of them for issues, errors and keepsakes. His mother is the youngest of 11, mine is the oldest of 8. He has 6 siblings, I have 4 - all close.

    The back mock up isn't a final. It was a temporary throw together from the information on minted mixed with the information we threw. I'll gladly take the advice to pull the registry information.

    Again, thank you all!

    • Reply
  • E&M
    Master July 2016
    E&M ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    If you're having guests RSVP through your wedding website, can you put all the information on there instead of the back of the invitation? Can you shift everything up on the front of your invitation so you can add the the line about your wedding website immediately below the "Reception to follow"?

    • Reply
  • Nikki
    Super May 2018
    Nikki ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    My concern is that I would never think to flip over the invitation. I would just be confused why you didn't include a details or RSVP card.

    Is it possible to just add a line on the bottom of the invitation that says something effective to:

    "Please visit our website for additional information and to RSVP by ___whenever__" and then list the website?

    I'd put that instead of the "Reception to follow". You can always change the wedding verbiage to "wedding ceremony and celebration of" in the first line to encompass the reception.

    I feel like everything you are listing on the back of the invite belongs on the website anyway. Very few people include direction cards now since most people have smart phones & can just look up the address. You shouldn't list registry on invite or an inclusion card. And I don't think a timeline is necessary except you do have an hour gap that I'm assuming is your cocktail hour.

    • Reply
  • P
    January 2018
    Private User ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Minted has the all-in-one which are a little less expensive. We almost went that route but ended up taking advantage of the Vistaprint deal that ended yesterday.
    • Reply
  • Jen
    VIP July 2018
    Jen ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I'm using Minted for my invites and am doing exactly what you are proposing with the back of my invites. I think it will work out just fine and will save a lot of money!

    • Reply
  • A
    Beginner April 2018
    Amanda ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    We scratched the registry, formalized the front, corrected the timeline and WOW!! They turned out gorgeous!! So many compliments on them! We went onto amazon and purchased gold foiled envelopes for super cheap and used those as our envelopes as the minted option was a little higher in price. LOVE them!
    • Reply

You voted for . Add a comment 👇

×


Related articles

WeddingWire celebrates love ...and so does everyone on our site! Learn more

Rockstars

  • D
    Getting married in 07/03/2025

Groups

WeddingWire article topics