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Rachel
Savvy July 2017

Minister gift??

Rachel, on June 22, 2017 at 10:01 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 10

The chapel that I'm getting married in has a minister that works there on a volunteer basis. He doesn't receive payment for officiating the weddings there, but we were told that we "can give him a gift at your own discretion, but it is not mandatory." So my question is this: what would be a good gift for a minister? I'm not religious so I have no idea what to get him. What would even be an appropriate gift for him? I'm clueless!! Please help lol

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Latest activity by Shows2017, on June 23, 2017 at 6:38 AM
  • TheHamWhites
    Super March 2018
    TheHamWhites ·
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    Just get him a prepaid Visa gift card that he can use anywhere

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    An envelope with a thank you note and several hundred dollar bills in it. At least three.

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  • muriel
    Champion June 2018
    muriel ·
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    Cash is always good.

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  • Danielle
    VIP March 2017
    Danielle ·
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    Money.

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  • Rachel
    Savvy July 2017
    Rachel ·
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    I can't afford to give him at least $300... the wedding is only $900

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  • WinterSweet
    Devoted July 2017
    WinterSweet ·
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    Cash. At our venue which is mostly inclusive, they can provide a minister if the bride and groom don't have a preference on one. While we aren't doing that because I love the pastor from the church I grew up at, they did list a price. They said 200 extra if we used the venue's officiate.

    Go with an amount that you can afford, but cash with a lovely, handwritten thank you would be the way I would go.

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  • Tabatha
    Super August 2017
    Tabatha ·
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    Yes a handwritten note and whatever you can afford.

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  • Chelsea
    VIP September 2017
    Chelsea ·
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    Is this a chapel, not an established church? Our officiant is a pastor, we do not belong to the church. We are getting married outside of the church but receiving counseling from him. We will donate $400 to the church. It's my understanding that pastors do not accept payment. If that's not the case for you, anything is better than nothing. A note and giftcard?

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  • Rachel
    Savvy July 2017
    Rachel ·
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    Chelsea L., it's a little chapel. They said he is a minister that officiates for them on a voluntary basis. But he's there full-time, so I'm not sure what else he does. As far as I understand, he's of retirement age so my guess is that he's retired and fills his free time by officiating for them.

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  • Shows2017
    Super September 2017
    Shows2017 ·
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    You can do a nice handwritten thank you note and a gift card to any place just as a token of your appreciation

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