The chapel that I'm getting married in has a minister that works there on a volunteer basis. He doesn't receive payment for officiating the weddings there, but we were told that we "can give him a gift at your own discretion, but it is not mandatory." So my question is this: what would be a good gift for a minister? I'm not religious so I have no idea what to get him. What would even be an appropriate gift for him? I'm clueless!! Please help lol