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Savvy October 2020

Mil— Guest problems?

Ashley, on January 26, 2020 at 2:56 PM Posted in Planning 1 7

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Hi everyone! I am coming up with our guest list and getting addresses— I worked for one of my fiancé’s mothers friend and thing ended kind of rough with that job. Long story short, this person has sent me an address and I do not want this person or her family at my wedding. She is very close to my Fiancé’s mom and I feel like they just assume things are fine and going to be invited. What do I do?

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Latest activity by Kari, on January 28, 2020 at 1:55 PM

Legend November 2019
Caytlyn · on January 26, 2020 at 2:58 PM
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Does your FH want to invite her? I feel like this should be a mutual decision.
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Anna · on January 27, 2020 at 11:46 AM
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Does your fiancé's mom even know what happened? Might be wise to discuss with your fiancé and then have him approach his mom with your mutual concerns.
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Savvy October 2020
Ashley · on January 27, 2020 at 11:54 AM
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Hey! She does know— she hasn’t really heard from me but I know that they do talk to each other and I think she has heard more from this person what happened. I haven’t talked to her about it at all
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Savvy October 2020
Ashley · on January 27, 2020 at 11:55 AM
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I talked to him and he said the only reason he would want to invite her is because he knows his mom would want to. They don’t really have much a relationship with my FH
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Sherry · on January 27, 2020 at 12:27 PM
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If you don't want to invite them, don't send them an invitation.
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Anna · on January 27, 2020 at 2:25 PM
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Who is paying for the wedding? Honestly, if your MIL is paying for her guests I would probably just let this one slide and invite her (unless she was abusive to you or something of that sort). If you were let go from the job and it's just some general tension as a result I would invite her to keep the peace and take the high road.
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Kari · on January 28, 2020 at 1:55 PM
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If you didn't request their address I'm uncertain why it was sent to you. I probably just wouldn't invite them. If your FMIL brings it up, it's time for you or your FH to have a conversation with her that this person is not invited.
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