So this is a little odd and maybe a non-issue but I figured I’d ask! My FMIL purchased her dress without telling us and before I got mine. It is a touchy situation because she said she’d let me and my mom pick our dresses and then she’d try to coordinate based on the overall feel of the wedding, but turned around a week later and purchased a dress. Not thrilled about the sneaky behavior there but whatever my mom and I have very different styles than her so it’s really nothing.
What I thought was weird was that she purchased a ballgown with a train that’s listed as a “wedding gown” but purchased it in black. I thought I was crazy but I sent just the picture without the description to a few people and they were really shocked because it looks like a wedding gown just not white. I think I’m letting her past behavior of trying to make everything about her impact my opinion of this situation, but something in my gut feels like she did it on purpose. Is it weird that she picked that kind of dress for what is otherwise a casual outdoor wedding and hid it from us for almost 6 months?
To be clear: we hadn’t discussed the mom’s dresses yet since we’re still pretty far out. We never intended on picking for them or requesting a specific color or anything. This choice just feels a little like she’s trying to steal the show, but again, I could be letting her past history of doing that cloud my judgement!
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