Hey people... so
My husband and I have been married actually just almost a year. His mom texted him yesterday saying some rude things about me and him which I saw. We share phones since we got married but anyways I was extremely upset when I saw her text to him because of what she said about me. I decided to text her about it how it was disrespectful to me (I actually stood up for myself for once :-) ). My husband always never deals with confrontation so I have to be the one to be that person in the relationship. His mom blew up and said all of this extremely unnecessary things which obviously led me to say some things since she wanted to be immature and to be a disrespectful rude person to me. At this point I am very sure that MILs who have (sons) who like to be rude to their daughter in laws mainly just don’t like it when they marry another woman or something. She was nasty and disrespectful in the way she spoke to me to the point I was shocked. As much as I think it would be good to be mature I just can’t fathom having my children around them one day. I feel like their parents are SO immature, manipulative, controlling, etc. I guess like mom’s who have sons are like this...? It’s not the first time I have heard this being the case and how the daughter in law does not have a good relationship with the parents in law. When one day I am a mother in law I know I will be very respectful and kind in mature towards my son and his woman, my daughter and his man etc because that is what I want in return. Why are parents so bad like this like they were towards he and I? I just can’t understand how and why they feel like it is appropriate?