Hey All! So I have a kinda of complicated situation. Our guest list has been done for months. The few extra spaces I have were being saved in case anyone gets into a relationship - obviously want everyone to be able to bring their SO.
SOO my FH just had his bachelor party - yes I know 5 months out is early but he wanted to play golf all weekend and did not want to risk the weather. So I'm looking at pictures and notice a guy there who we had not planned to invite. I'm annoyed FH didn't tell me this but I put this guy and his gf on the list. Then I start thinking what if he did this to others. Turns out, he did. He invited 6 people, all of whom have SOs, to his bachelor party. However, only the one guy went. In his defense, all were on our original list, but he should have checked the final list.
Here is my question, what do you do? I don't want to be rude but I also have our friends list to the bare minimum because we both have huge families (his side is divorces so really there are 3 families in attendance including mine). I am at 199 and out venue cap is 210. While I realize there are people who won't attend, I also am well aware people will show up with uninvited guests.
Any advice would be lovely!
