I'm trying to figure out how to word our invitations. Who knew it would be so hard (so many choices!). Both our parents are helping us pay so we are using Mr. and Mrs. John Doe and Mr. and Mrs. James Smith.... I read online that if both parents are listed and our last names are the same, we shouldn't re-list our last names (ie: only include our First and Middle). However, I hate my middle name so I thought about doing First M Last. Does it seem to repetitive to say our last names again? Should I just suck it up and put mine? I like his middle name so I'm torn.