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Messed up invites-help!!

Jessica, on June 17, 2020 at 12:43 AM Posted in Planning 0 6

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So when I did my invitations for the wedding, I Felt so rushed because we had just officially decided that we were still on full swing. and I didn’t put “and guest” or “+1” on most of them that weren’t to married couples. I’ve already had a few people ask about this and I feel absolutely terrible that I screwed that up. Is there anyway to rectify it without all of the guests questioning me? Please no mean comments!

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Latest activity by Jessica, on June 17, 2020 at 7:28 AM

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Sexypoodle · on June 17, 2020 at 12:48 AM
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You can just call them. Since the person is received an invitation, it means that you or FH are close to them. So I would just give a call to clarify.
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Jana · on June 17, 2020 at 12:50 AM
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Honestly I wouldn't worry about it. Many people, especially on a budget, do not invite random plus ones. If you have the extra money that you want to spend on extra guests, you can call or email to let them know.
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Renee · on June 17, 2020 at 12:55 AM
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Awww don't stress out, it won't help. Honestly, I would wait for their call. That way you aren't adding another task to your list. When they do call apologize and tell them to write down the plus 1 name on the back of RSVP card. If you happen to talk to them on the phone you can advise them that way as well.
When it gets closer to the date you can reach out to those who haven't RSVP'd, which you'll probably have to do anyway. Maybe highlight the names who you think didn't get the plus 1 RSVP card so you have an idea of who to look out for. It will be okay!
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Melle · on June 17, 2020 at 1:06 AM
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I don’t think there’s a way to rectify it. Just explain to them what happened if they ask or try to contact them first
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Natalie · on June 17, 2020 at 7:24 AM
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I would just contact those who would be given a plus one or whose significant other was left off the invite. I think they would completely understand if you were honest about it and let them know they could bring someone versus waiting for them to reach out to you.
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Jessica · on June 17, 2020 at 7:28 AM
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Thank you all, I will get in touch with the people who should have them rather than waiting just so they hear it from me without having to ask. I feel a lot better!!
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