We were suit shopping yesterday and the salesperson asked what my wedding dress color was in order to pair my FH in the correct colored shirt. I told him it was ivory and he brought out an "ivory" shirt but it was much darker, warmer, and yellower than the ivory of my dress (almost the color of a manilla envelope like those used in filing cabinets). I think of wedding dress ivory as being a soft white (vs a crisp, bright white) and feel like the ivory shirts were too dingy by comparison, but the salesperson said a standard "white" shirt might be too bright.
My question is, did you put any thought into matching your groom's shirt with the bride's dress? Did you find a solution? Is there such a thing as a "soft white" men's dress shirt? I'm keeping my dress a secret from my FH until our wedding (he knows some details, but hasn't seen the dress), so aside from bringing home a variety of men's shirts for comparison, I'm not sure how to go about matching them.