Memorial Table Problems- Advice needed!

I personally would still put them. Unless you had some kind of awful relationship with any of these people like physical or emotional abuse, it's not going to hurt you to put their photo on the table. Excluding them could hurt others.

You should still put them, especially since you are inviting their family members. This is an easy enough way to prevent offending people.

I didn’t have a memorial table for exactly this reason, I didn’t want to have to keep adding people just because it would be nice for someone else.
But, since you’re already having a table, I’d go ahead and add them. I don’t think it’ll hurt anything by having them there

I would put them just out of respect. That could definitely cause a disaccord. It's a touchy subject but I would be fair.

This was a dilemma that I had. I had a memory board made up, that said all of my grandparents & my FH paternal grandparents names. However I have decided that I’m going to include my maternal grandparents pics & my FH paternal grandparents pics but not my paternal grandparents pics.
A few reasons for this - I wasn’t close to them (or my dads side) at all, nor were they close to me. One Easter when I was very young, my grandmother called the house phone, I answered & she said may I speak with my son - not happy Easter, not even hi - May I speak with my son.
Still until recently I was going to rise up & do the same for everyone. Then on Sunday we had my bridal shower & my paternal family was there - and they proceeded to talk s#*+ about me - others told me that they were taken back. I realized that it doesn’t matter what I do, I can try to include everyone. I can try to be nice & fair, but they are still going to say what a brat I was when I was a child & how I don’t deserve anything good that’s happening to me as an adult. To be fair, I wasn’t awful when I was a child, apparently I didn’t share properly - and they literally tell stories saying that I didn’t share toys & that I should be ashamed of myself & the fact that I don’t recall things that I did when I was 6 just proves that I’ve never changed. It’s bizarre.
Anyway, I realized that they are going to talk about me - be upset w/ me over silly things, so the very least thing that I can do is be true to myself. So I’m going to be true to myself.