Skip to main content

Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

Meghan
Super September 2019

Memorial Table at Ceremony

Meghan, on July 24, 2019 at 11:19 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 6
I would really like to have a memorial table to honor our grandparents that are no longer with us. Every wedding I've been to the memorial table has been at the reception, but I'm a bit stumped on where to set it up at our reception. We have to provide all the tables for everything and I'm really not sure where memorial table would fit in. But I'd really like to have one (I'm honestly not sure how much FH cares about memorial table). Would it be weird/disrespectful to have the memorial table just set up at the ceremony at the church? Honestly I feel like that's more where I'll be thinking of them/their presence will be missed than the reception anyway. I'm just curious, since I've never seen it done that way before, how other people would feel about that.


6 Comments

Latest activity by Lisa, on July 24, 2019 at 12:34 PM
  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
    Courtney ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I've weddings have memorial tables at both the ceremony and reception- usually just a candle. We plan on having our officiant making a brief prayer during our ceremony.

    • Reply
  • Danielle
    Master June 2019
    Danielle ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Personally, I think it'll be fine to do it that way. We had one at our reception, but my husband didn't provide his family pictures like I asked him too, and I wasn't going to stress myself trying to hunt them down...so our memorial table only had my deceased grandparents on it, lol.

    • Reply
  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I think it'd be fine if it's just at the ceremony.
    • Reply
  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
    Mandi ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I've only noticed these tables at the ceremony. Not saying they didn't make it to the reception, just saying I've not noticed it.
    • Reply
  • Dita
    Expert August 2019
    Dita ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    I’ve typically noticed them at receptions, usually near where the place cards or set up or sometimes near the gift table. I don’t think I’ve ever actually seen a table at a ceremony, but I’m sure it is a thing. At ceremonies, I’ve typically seen a seat left open with a candle/flower and picture or something along those lines. There’s plenty of ways to go about it though!
    • Reply
  • Lisa
    Dedicated September 2019
    Lisa ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    We will set up a small round table near the card table. I have pictures in frames (5 family members) and a framed memorial saying. We will have one floating candle burning.

    • Reply

You voted for . Add a comment 👇

×

Related articles

WeddingWire celebrates love ...and so does everyone on our site! Learn more

Groups

WeddingWire article topics