My FH and I have an unfortunate amount of deaths in our family. Some of them where close to both of us. I want to put up a sign “If heaven wasn’t so far away, we know you’d be here today” because my sisters and I have a similar tattoo. But here’s my problem. I don’t want pictures up because it would look a little morbid (and we are already doing a Halloween wedding!). I also don’t want pictures up too because I don’t want to put a picture of my grandfather up. He just passed but a couple of months later I found out he did some really bad things to my other cousins, nothing to me physically he was just always mean; but not a lot of my family knows. Is that okay that I don’t put pictures up and people just take the message as is?