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Amy
Dedicated November 2019

Me and my big mouth.

Amy, on August 13, 2019 at 9:44 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8
I am getting Married this coming November and I'm trying to keep the guest list at 120 people tops. My issue is that about 6 months ago I was at a work event with a coworker talking about my wedding and I may have mentioned that they would be invited. At this particular time I didnt really have a definite # in my head of a guest count, however now I do. Is it terrible if I dont send an invite to this person now that I know what I'm looking at for numbers in regards to family and close friends? Keep in mind I really havent spoken much to this coworker in over a year as they work in another office now.

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Latest activity by Amy, on August 14, 2019 at 1:59 PM
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    Expert January 2020
    Abby ·
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    If you don’t really see them often/ talk to themI would just keep not talking to them. If they bring it up say “oh sorry the guest list got to be too much. We would love to go out with you after and celebrate”. Don’t feel terrible. I thought there would be ppl we would invite, but the list just got to be too much!
    Good luck😊
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  • Amy
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    Thanks Abby!!!
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  • Cher Horowitz
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    I would try to contact her! Apologize for not inviting her and explain the guest list situation. Honesty is the best thing here!

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    You have to do what’s best for you!! I’m sure in some universe where money is no object people would invite everyone they have ever said hi to! Don’t worry about inviting that person, and if it ever comes up, explain that you had a budget and invited only close family and friends.
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  • Amy
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    Thanks Cher! That's probably what I will do. Hopefully they will have forgotten by then.
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  • Amy
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    Thanks Jenny..and I am fir sure not from that universe 😊
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  • Kelly
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    If you don't talk to or see them anymore I wouldn't even worry about it. If they mention it just say you couldn't afford to invite as many people as you wanted.
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  • Amy
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    Thanks Kelly!!
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