Soo long story short we had to adjust our menu somewhat when family who said they plan yo attend decided not to attend. They told his mom not us and we found out by just chit-chat thinking we knew.
It was to late to change venue due to 8 weeks out approx. We would lose the money. So venue offered us other options to add.
We chose appetizers and additional sweets and special drink.His step mom told me the other day when i said we had been offered a extra night stay she take tue room ifbwe didnt want it. 🤨 wait what?? She wanted our room. Then said since its a small wedding we should of gotten a sheet cake and left it that. We didnt need a photographer we could just taken some photos.To then ask since its destination wedding do we wish we would of just had it in town instead? She is bothered by the fact she cant fly at the time , day and airline she wants with out it being pricey. She wont rent a car and is complaining she has to find a way to get from Orlando to our location 1 hr away. The hotel she chose is sketchy but close and they dont want to drive far from the venue.Is it me or does she sound kind negative and spiteful its not around her confidence. She said we may fly in the day before and the morning after the wedding. Its been being planned for 1 yr she should of planned sooner. Am i taking this all wrong? Fiancé doesnt know she said this to me. Ig being a second marriage she feels we dont need this? Idk