May 16th brides- Cutting it too close?

Hello lovelies!


I hope everyone’s hanging in there. I’ve seen quite the mix of those who canceled/postponed and those of you who are going forward!
Here’s my situation: We are supposed to get married on May 16th but my state put an actual ban on events over 50 people for 8 weeks from today, that puts us at 5/11, five days before our wedding. We invited 200 though we know with this going on we would probably only expect 75-100. My venue just now got in contact with me and said they canceled all events within the next 30 days but that she’s confident my date will be just fine but man that’s cutting it close, especially for guests who have to start making travel arrangements (some already have!) and what if the state decides to extend it!?
We have a backup date of 8/2 and while I feel like maybe that would be better safety wise my fear is that what if we decide to take it and is okay for a bit after the ban is lifted (I.e. my original date would probably be the “safest” time) but then it starts back up again in July after people stop social distancing and I’m back in this very same spot, but this time with no option to postpone, I’d cancel at that point....
I’m really not sure what to do, the unknowns and timing of this whole thing makes it super difficult for me to stick with a decision!!