Matron or Maid of Honor

You can call them Friends of Honor if it makes you happy. It's just a word.

Agreed with pps. You could call her best woman!

Thanks OHP. Didn't see a way to do that from the app so I hadn't changed it!

I would just ask her what she wants her title to be. My best friend is extremely traditional and she takes great pride in being a wife. If I called her anything but "matron of honor", she would probably be offended. So I'm using it even though I'm not a huge fan of the title. Just ask her.

My cousin actually is married but doesn't want to be referred to as "matron of honor" so I am just calling her a maid of honor.... whatever makes my girls happy, makes me happy.

I didn't even think about it I just call my sister my Maid of honor and she doesn't care either way...as long as she's my #1....

It's interesting, we don't call bridesmaids bridesmatrons once they're married, do we? I say call her what you want, your guests won't notice one way or the other

Thanks Holly! Actually every girl in my party is married so yeah, by that standard shouldn't I have to call them all bridesmatrons?! (definitely not doing that lol).

When I asked my best friend to be my Maid of Honor she was not married and was not engaged. In the last two months she has gotten engaged and planned her wedding to happen before mine. She was more than happy to point out to me that she would now be my "Matron of Honor". I agree that I don't love how "Matron of Honor" sounds but its what she would prefer. Although I don't know if we are doing programs so it doesn't really matter in my case.

I have a Matron of Honor and a Maid of Honor. The 'Matron' is younger than my 'Maid' but they're two of my closest friends.

I called mine maid even though she got married last year. Matron sounds like an insult! Bridesmaids are still bridesmaids even if they're married so I think it's fine.